Imagine you’re driving down the road and everyone is cruising at a consistent 10 miles-per-hour above the speed limit. Many of us would join the flow of traffic and break the speed limit as well.

Picture a parent, a leader in their own right, who has just made a grilled cheese sandwich for their two kids. The parent tells one kid that they get to cut the sandwich in two pieces however they want. Before they do that, though, the parent says that the second kid gets to choose their